I got called a femanoid

Yesterday I was hanging out with my two friends and I went over to their house. Sometimes we like to hangout with her brother and his friends so we decided to have a fire with them. Now, these boys are not the best people. What I mean by that is that their kinda just scumbags. So we were all sitting by the fire talking and before the femanoid stuff, they were talking about trans people. Basically, one of the boys (who I used to kinda date) got with this really nice and pretty trans girl. All the boys were kinda just ripping on him about it and saying he got with boy, which obviously he didn't she is a GIRL. I kinda did not expect this from them because my friend is lesbian so i expected her brother to be like super ally and all his friends too but they were just all speaking so poorly about trans people. It was sad. But anyways we strung away from that conversation and I don't even remember what we were talking about but then I remember they were like telling each other to tell me what they said about me and like none of them wanted to say it so I was kinda scared. And then one of them was like "yea why don't you tell her how she is a femanoid" and just calling me a foid. I didn't even know what it meant so I was just like super embarrassed. If I knew what it meant I would've been able to say something back but I just stayed silent. So as you can see, these guys are scumbags. So later I looked it up and found men use it to refer to women in a way that makes them sound less human or reduces them to their sex, so very misogynistic. So yea that was my rant I was pretty hurt by that comment but I guess what i've gathered is that their all incels.