There is a massive difference between having a preference and completely lacking basic manners.
Like for example, I was talking to this random guy and he was really clingy from the start, but once he found out my race/what I looked like he immediately ghosted me. Mind you we weren’t even dating or friends. We just met.
It is wild to me how quickly people will judge you based entirely on your physical appearance. Before you try to excuse it with, 'Well, everyone has a type,' let me be clear: there is nothing wrong with having a preference. What is messed up is completely flipping your personality and treating someone like they don't exist just because they don't fit your beauty standards.
I have a type, too. But not being attracted to someone doesn't mean I suddenly treat them like trash. It just shows a massive lack of character on your part.
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bunnibun7
I get you, not with the dating part or talking to anyone for the sake of a relationship but I was on the heavier side a year ago and I was made fun of and bullied for it really bad to the point where I struggled with a lot of stuff that I wont get into!
but ever since I started lifting and doing cardio, gaining muscle and losing weight, all of a sudden people want to switch up which is funny!!! funny because I am the same person but different body shape AHEM
but yea same thing with my race as well which is a bummer, people may have types but that doesn't mean that they should treat you with disrespect, if they didn't want to date you after disclosing your race then they should've communicated that instead of ghosting.
people are so sensitive, they don't realize how simple life can be if you just simply didn't make others insecure or feel bad for what or who they are.
you deserve better!
Ajax🖤
Hum hallelujah man. It just proves how trashy people can be.
savvluvsllamas__
totally. i've had this happen to me b4. im on the bigger side for my age/height and people treat me like crap because of it. at my old skl there was this girl who looked exactly like me (same hair, style, eye color, skin tone, personality type) but was skinnier than me. maybe im just a bitch and was paying to much attention but she was treated much better by ppl who treated me like crap </3.
it's always the people who act like pretty privilege is a bad thing until they aren't recieving the attention.
shouldve included this in my og comment but ive been bullied for how i look </3 so glad i dont need to deal with those incels anymore
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