Biphobia is real i just didn’t really notice until i realized it was not normal.
OKAY don’t get mad at me btw it’s probably more prominent than i personally experience.. i’m not very active in the lgbtq community nor am i SUPER duper open about being bisexual. but holy moly. biphobia is real.
Okay. So i’ve been bisexual for maybe 4 years now, but i’ve always been openly queer like always something sparkily and rainbow about me.
so yeah one of my close friends of 4 ish years was SHOCKED that i was bisexual. this was recent.
first of all i look pretty bisexual. I’m sorry but i don’t look very straight.
second of all.
why everyone suddenly hate me cause i’m dating a dude and not a girl :,)
I mentioned this briefly in another blog, but my ex-bestfriend and his frequent group GENUINELY harassed me for dating a dude and also my bf for no reason.
and it started off like subtle. Like my ex-bestfriend would take jabs at me for having a “straight” relationship or dating a boy. like. what 😭😭😭 genuinely brought up constantly. and then they tried to break up me and my bf because “I actually liked girls and didn’t tell my bf.”
weird stuff right. and then when his gf blocked me she said “oh and you like girls” like that would offend me??? IM BISEXUAL 😭
why do people make it such a life changing big deal when you are bisexual girl with a boyfriend. Like why does that instantly make you straight. are we forgetting that like before my boyfriend i has a crush on so many girls. actually i swear i ONLY went primarily for girls. goodness gravy.
sorry does anyone else get straight washed.
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GOAT
imo all that matters is the connection you have on a multifaceted level
doesn't matter if they straight, gay, green alien with tentacles
whatever makes you happy is whatever makes you happy <33
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As a bisexual girl this is making my blood boil 😭😭😭😭 just leave your friend group girl this is SO DISRESPECTFUL TwT
Also, THIS ISN'T NORMAL !! that's homophobic behaviour even if they are 'accepting' you :(
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for sure, i always just kinda brushed it off as “maybe they just don’t know” but dude it got to a point where it was genuinely just disrespect back to back :,)
Also i’m no longer friends with them as of a couple weeks ago thankfully LOL
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also pretty disappointing because all of them are queer or even bisexual themselves..
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Cravaings
omg me too. I remember I was talking to my old friend group and they were like "YOU LIKE GIRLS?!!"
It happens to the best of us! maybe idk