okay so for school next year, i want to actually like not get into drama or surround myself with bad people. that of which, starts now. i have a few friends and idk if i should drop them entirely or just distance. heres their little nicknames for now. (i lowkey js want to rant abt them bc i have nobody who rlly cares abt it anymore;-;)
we have...
mcblingy - shes sweet but a month or two ago, when i was dating my ex, she actively posted my face and bashed me on her tiktok story saying that i was delusional and fake and a terrible person. also proceeded to show polaroids of me (bad ones too) so people knew who she was talking about. has technically apologized but she blamed it on my other ex who was "manipulating" her which frankly, i don't inherently believe. she also wrote some dank shit on my photo in the year book but i havent seen it, only been told by some close friends so that could js be them exaggerating (i have dramatic friends.) i want to believe her bc by the last month, she seemed to be getting better but i don't know. (also the backlash of not being her friend sucks.)
slipknot - mcblingy's bf!! lowkey a womanizer and was actively flirting w people while dating mcblingy but its not my place to say anything since she sorta dislikes me and wouldn't believe me anyways. other people saw tho so they can tell her if they have the guts. anywho, he sorta leaves me out a lot and bashes my other friend but we have a lot of history and he's been my friend since sixth grade and family friends and stuff.
rollerderbs - used to be my bsf but lowkey just keeps ghosting me every other week and im lowkey sick of it but miss her at the same time so idk anymore lol!!
hippie princess - sweet but is kinda talking bad abt my bbsf bc her friend dated him and apparently, they had a bad break up. ive only heard from his side tho so idk if he did anything bad to the girl, and also the girl kinda hates me so lol.
my bbsf is dropping them and so is my other bsf but idk what to do because some of them will be in my classes and i dont want beef cause my school is a whole "hands on" thing and encourages group work at all times and just somehow i always get put with people i have beef with when we have group work lol
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bunn13_f1op
definitely distance and drop them. it'll save you enough trouble in the long wrong like think about it really
It's always good to set boundaries and think about what kind of people u wanna surround with ykw?
And with the ghosting thing, I think it's good to communicate. That goes for any relationship/friendships, it's always important to recall what you want and what's best for you.
People come and go ^_^
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i think u should drop them but try talking to rollerderbs about the ghosting and if she still does it drop her