me and one of my friend's had a major falling out. he mentioned that he #didn't agree with what i was doing" (but never specified what that was. he was extremely immature about the whole situation) and also that i had done things to hurt a mutual friend. i had no idea about this, so i had asked the mutual friend "hey have i done something?" that friend told me no. i thought everything was dandy with that friend. i got over my falling out with this friend pretty fast (even tho he talked about me very often i hear.) however, when i brought up that this mutual friend had hurt me they reflect it with "oh you did all this stuff" (that happened BEFORE i originally asked if i had hurt them.) and never took accountability for their own actions and never apologized. i apologized for every single fucking thing they said i did, point by point. i really wanna bring this up with my friend but i have no idea how to, and i'm worried if i do they'll hate me (which is not a good thing because i HAVE to see them alot and i do a class that they teach.) so please just like give me something i dunno how to bring it up
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I think it's better to just cut them off, and I know it's hard especially if you have them at school or wherever you see them a lot. If they didn't handle this situation well they're most likely never going to handle something properly and that kind of toxicity isn't something you should be having around you. It can be awkward at first but over time you'll get over it and faster since you already mentioned how little it's affected you. If they ignored every point you made they're probably trying to find a reason to hate you and to justify it and like I said before that's very toxic and not good to have in a friend.
i'll try thank you so much i really appreciate this
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