I need to vent

So like idk, idk how to start this, but like I'm tired of ppl getting mad at me just bcz of a misunderstanding


Idk if I can vent here, I hope so, it's a way that I can get lighter without anyone that I know to know, I have this friend, which they were an inspiration to me, someone that was so cool and shi, but some days ago we were making jokes to each other which I'm not gonna say here, and they're older than me by 1 year, and I started joking saying that they're overage talking to a minor, as a joke, and I thought they knew I was joking by the way they were replying, and then suddenly they started saying to not do that anymore bcz it sounded like a threat, and I said sorry, I admitted the mistake and I know it was my fault, if I was in their place I would've gotten the same reaction, but we solved that, but now they're acting a bit distant, they told me that they sometimes push ppl away when those things happen and I get it, and I told them that I would never threaten them bcz they're so special to me, idk, I'm gonna stop sayin jokes fr, like ts is the second time someone special to me gets mad or smth just bcz of a misunderstanding


Like this time I made everything right, and it was more understandable than the first time this happen to some1 else bcz that person just thought they were the center of the universe, now the second time I acc made everything right I told them that these stuff happen and it's good that we fixed it, I think there's no need to act distant for over 1 small thing :(

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I get what you mean cus I used to ragebait my friends a lot last year(still do) and I wasn't told till this year that they took the ragebaiting seriously and thought I was mad at them cus they didn't understand the concept of friends being mean to each other as a joke and now I just feel so guilty about it💔 also they couldn't tell I was being sarcastic when I did ragebait.😭

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That is true. I remember when this girl tried to fight me because I made a joke saying your mom is baldheaded, which she is. She has hair, but not that much, mind you; we were joking, and she thought it wasn't funny, like she was just agreeing with me, then me and her got into a fight, like it was kind of dumb😭