I seem to respect others even when they're "problematic"

I've noticed a recurring pattern in my behavior on tiktok of all places where I seem to be kind to people even if I don't understand them. Example: radqueers. I do not support them at all they are incredibly harmful to the queer community but I seem to still be nice to them or just block them instead of harassing them. Another example: is darkshippers and proshippers. I treat them with respect I understand that a lot of them are struggling with their mental health and I've been there.

Maybe this fascination is because I have an interest in psychology and want to understand why people gravitate to things that are deemed as gross, perverted, or harmful. And my conclusion is human-beings are fascinating creatures that don't make sense and probably will never be figured out fully when it comes to the brain and how we think. And honestly all of my socials are for people to be themselves especially people struggling.

(I did not like incest, bestiality, or minor X adult ships. I'm just pointing out that I understand wanting to explore the things especially after traumatic events without actively harming people physically.)

(Also I do believe that fiction can affect reality but that's when you actively can't separate the two. Example: liking creepypastas does not mean you are a serial killer or a terrorist unless you can't actively separate reality from fiction and act on violence thoughts.)