FIRST BLOG!!!! :DD I was thinking about this a lot today about how I seriously wish and would love to b the older sibling and I wish SO bad that I was born first. I just got back from a vacation with my older sis and she's staying with us for a lil but, but as much as I hate to say it... I can't WAIT for her to go back to university ;((
im telling u dude this entire vacation has felt like somethiNg out of diary of a wimpy kid or a sitcom xd
shes 2 years older than me and should be the mature one.. right? right?? WRONG. dude this entire vacation was just her psychoanalysing me and my every movement, constantly asking what I was lookin at on my phone or asking why im wearing a certain thing, asking why I listen to the music I listen to
and not in like a curious way, instead in a SUPER judgy way. no reasoning for anything, NO advice that you should kindA expect from an older sister. just her being judgemental ALL THE DAMN TIME
im kinda quiet and awkward in real life and ive struggled lots to make friends and approach people, and the crazy thing is that my sister has been there before!!! shes experienced what im going through and instead of helping me, she judges me for it because shes now this big extrovert that doesnt really have any more social anxiety, so I guess that gave her kinda an ego boost
ANYWAY.....
If I was an older sibling I swear I would be the COOLEST EVERRR. I would give my sis or bro advice, I would let them have my stuff that I dont use anymore, i would hang out with them at the park, or play games with them and teach them how to play things like volleyball or some video games I like, i would share music with them, I would be kind to them always
like dude I get fighting with siblings is kinda normal but I dont even wanna say anythin to my sis because shes gonna judge me for sure
I dont know if this is a rant or if i want advice, UR FREE TO COMMENT WHATEVERRR FIRST BLOG DONE LETS GOOOO BEAR OVER AND OUT =)))
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lexi♫⋆｡♪ ₊˚♬ ﾟ.
Older sister here! I have a brother 4 years younger than me, he just turned 12 today and I feel like I'm the worst sister ever. I'm incredibly protective of him, because I was around his age when I first started struggling with my mental health and I simply don't want history to repeat itself. I don't exactly know how to connect with him - I'd like to be there for him and offer advice, but I don't even know how to approach him. We're quite different; he's the sporty, sociable type while I'm more studious and artistic and don't really love being around people like he does. I wish we were closer. This is probably not the advice you were looking for, but I needed to get it out( ´・∀・｀)
YEAHHHH!!! thats how i feel too!! me and my sister are just complete opposites. and yeah my sister was very similar to me when she was my age, maybe she kinda sees a part of herself in me? like a part of herself that she used to hate?
i guess that makes sense. but i feel like im pretty easy to approach, im not mean to her and i dont act like defensive or anything, idk why it just seems like she wants nothing to do with me :/ my parents are always saying we need to b closer too
thank u for ur comment i can deffo relate :))
by bear; ; Report
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as the oldest of five, i can kind of see where your older sister is coming from. i, too, constantly hover over my younger sibling's devices and behaviors because i love them and want to see them be the best version of themselves that they can be. i will admit, it undeniably comes off as judgy.
being the eldest sibling comes with its own pros and cons. for the most part, it's sort of like being a third parent -- having to juggle your responsibility to your younger siblings with your desire to be your own person and do your own things. but, even if you can't be the oldest sibling now, i'm sure your motivation for helping children will shine if you ever choose to have a family!