I lowkey wish i had been born a boy. Ive had this feeling for about five years now maybe longer. Sometimes i think about how things might've been different or better for me had i been born the other sex. I just think i would have been happier as a boy. Looking like a boy, sounding like a boy, living like a boy, etc. idk what to do with this since there's no way im ever telling my dad. he`s a republican and leans kind of maga. Ive also heard the things he's says about trans people. I mean i love him that's my dad but yk. Does wishing i was a boy make me trans? idk ive never really looked into these feelings before. Idk what i should do. Advice is much appreciated
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alexanderspoison
do you think of it like, 'i would be treated better and feel more comfortable in my daily life if i were a man' or do you think of it like, 'i want to look/sound/act/be like a man'? if you really feel like you are, you should experiment with your gender identity a little, its harmless and will help you find yourself (even if it turns out that you arent trans.) just do things like try out different pronouns with online friends, dress more masculinely with the clothes you already have, et cetera. the truth will come to you.
Both tbh buts it’s more I want to look/act/sound like a man. Too the point where I hate and feel uncomfortable in my own body. Thank you for the awesome advice 🙏 I will def try what you’ve suggested thx smmm
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of course. gender is merely feeling comfortable in your own skin :]
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КРИПТИД
this is a pretty good example of why so many children think theyre trans. no, lots of people think like that. gender dysphoria is a lot more complicated psychologically.
I see. I didn’t know other people thought that way.
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Xx_jamesjekyll_xX
Trans guy here: that sounds a lot like dysphoria. I mean like, if you wish you looked and sounded and were raised like a cis boy, you might be a boy! I'm sorry about your dad tho :-(
It’s alr, I mean I’ve always suspected I might be a boy but Ive always just ignored it and lived like a girl. Ig I’ve just been pushing it down all this times. Thanks tho :p
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