idk yall

i dunno if it’s just me, but i don’t know why I’ve always ignored the fact that a negative mind can give you a negative life, and a positive mind may or may not give you a positive life too My dad always told me this growing up and I always ignored him.

Now, when I look at things or am around people with a negative mindset, I just feel like my whole energy is being drained. I dunno how to put it. Being around people who have problems and tell me about them 24/7 like yes if my friend needs help or someone to talk to, I’m more than glad to listen and maybe figure out the next move in life. But come on, people can’t just sit there crying or complaining about things the whole time and expect a change. Like, no, jeez, you’ve gotta take action. Who cares if you mess up more than twice? Just keep trying.

I got out of two addictions this year that destroyed me mentally simply because I accepted that if no action is taken against them, they won’t go away. Like it is not rocket science people!

And yes, I’m cutting people off who are just whining and complaining, damn well knowing that they can change things, but never taking action just because. And if you have a mental illness, don’t feel like this is directed at you. This is for people who genuinely have nothing but their mind stopping them

Mari