ts is genuinely so much harder than ppl think dude. one of my friends deadahh just tried to out me in a moment off anger over something i didn't even do????? i genuinely HATE feeling like this, i'm always having to go the extra mile and worry about everything while everyone else gets to be who they want so freely. and also who even does something like that???? just hooting and hollering around that i'm gay to the whole school like wtf. first of all she thought that i'd told someone smt about her (which wasn't even negative, just that she cried because this boy was alone) and when i proved to her i didn't she still wouldn't fucking stop?!?!????? like she was just yelling "but you are tho!! :)))) you are gay!!!! :D" like trying to make everyone else hear like i wouldn't be bullied to death because of that. i'm so ticked off i'm so ticked off wtf is her problemmmmmmmm and worst part is she's trying to out someone but is also a heartstopper and heated rivalry fan. HAVE YOU LEARNED NOTHING???? so she likes gays if it's for her entertainment??? wtv i'm just so annoyed. and saying that me telling that little boy she cried because he was alone (which i didn't) is the equivalent to her telling everyone i'm gay???? i was literally about to cry like right there nd i'm so happy I kept it tgt. and then apparently after my bsf talked to her and made her sit next to me to apologize she was literally just laughing like a maniac while me and him talked ???? what the fuck was that about lol guess it's my fault for telling her so i can't complain tm lmao
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I don't think you and her should be friends if she decides to dance over your boundaries like that and then have the AUDACITY to laugh about it right next to you.
That isn't the type of friend you should have for any length of time, and I'm honestly surprised she has friends at all, given the way you describe her attitude and personality.
If she really can't give you a proper apology for what she did, then for anything that she has done in the past without laughing, then I think you should cut her off; it would save you both the trouble.
Then again, don't take what I'm saying as a direct command, but as a suggestion. My tone is not to control what you do, nor should you always act on what people tell you to do on the internet.
Just keep this message in your back pocket if you really get sick of her.
I hope you feel better now. I'm also part of the lgbtq+ [omni] so I understand how scary it can be to have that kind of information about you just shouted out for all to hear.
Please stay safe, and I hope you have a good rest of your day/night
--K3ndra
Thanks for all of the advice!! I also feel like I don't really fw her but I don't have a lot of friends and the ones I do have are all friends with her so it's going to be kinda complicated to just cut her off yk? I think I'll just have to let this one go and then if this keeps happening then I'll try to take some typa action.
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Yeah, I've been in a similar situation before.
Whatever you decide to do, it will get better; Trust π
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