Recently I met this one dude and we got along so quickly! We were texting each other, joking with him and stuff and it went well but.. I don't know what's with him but he has jealousy, when we were in a call while playing roblox and also I saw one of my friends and went up to talk to them a bit then when I spoke to him in a call he wouldn't say a word which irritated me. Look he may be jealous but can he just at least respond to me!? Ts happened multiple times and lowkey when I'm playing with him and when one of my other friends came up to me I would just ignore them so he wouldn't get jealous. Also kinda depressed?? He says that one of his friends ignore him and as always I comfort with him.. telling him how much I love him and telling him I'll care always about him no matter what happened. Fast forward yesterday I realized that he was friends with a person who literally groomed two different people, I literally told him to NOT interact with him because that motherfucker is a groomer but he didn't take it seriously and just kept making up lies how he ain't friends with him or whatever.. look I wouldn't give a single FUCK if he was friends with a darkshipper but a literal groomer? I was worrying about his safety telling him that he should be careful who is he talking to but.. then he responded with "why do you care" why shouldn't I FUCKING care. Why the fuck shouldn't I? I fucking felt like I was just wasting my time with him.. it was exhausting. Then when I was sleeping he texted me "You wouldn't care if I was being groomed by them right? 😂" "you wouldn't care if I got raped by them right? 😂" and then later deleted it. Seriously.. he thinks that I don't care for him which is crazy because I've told him multiple times I care for him. I'm genuinely so fucking tired with his bitchass. I don't know if i wanna be friends with him. Genuinely what should i just do.
I apologize for my damn English grammar I'm just so fucking tired.
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Hattiecat 🐹🍭🌈
In my opinion I think it's best that you unfriend him for your sake, because you being friends with him is causing you to be mentally unwell. I understand that he's your friend and that you care for him, but the way he is acting in your guy's friendship is wrong. You don't deserve to be friends with someone who is basically trying to guilt trip you for your sympathy despite you clearly caring for him (and warning him), that's not fair to you.
There's nothing wrong with supporting and trying to help someone who is going through depression and things like that, but it gets a point where you have to state boundaries and step back for your own mental well-being. Which is totally okay and normal because being around people who has similar behavior like him can be exhausting and depressing at some times.
It's a hard thing to do especially when it's someone you care for, but it's important to put your well being first before anything.
I'm really sorry that you're going through this, I went through the same thing and it's stressful. So, I really do hope the best for you
Nizo
Thinking about him makes me wanna hurt myself badly. I don't know if I want more friends anymore