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is it my fault?

bruh I'm starting to think its my fault I can get a boyfriend bro. like do I need to lower my standards or change my type or what. ik I'm probably wrong and I just haven't found "the one" yet but I have a lot of self doubt. and I don't think I have too much high of a standard. plus I really js wanna date another blk person. is it that hard, like genuinley

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the weird thing abt finding the right person is that u find them when u are not looking for them! 


As in, even if you do find someone right now, it probably wouldnt workout because u have this idealised version of a partner in ur mind, and they will never live to that standard 


instead, take the usual advice (focus on urself). Obviously, it sounds lame, but think of it as the path thats worth it in the end. 


For example, if you focus on self improvement, meet more ppl w/o the ulterior motive of getting with them, maybe youll form some real bonds! im not saying u shouldn't be looking for a bf, but maybe u are looking a bit too hard

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omg i relate to you Ive never been with someone ever and im getting so much fomo i haaate it,. But the problem for me is that I dont even have a crush or anyone I have any kind of interest in to begin with :| I just wanna experience being in a relationship it sounds so cute in my head but maybe im just hyping it up for nothing and it actually sucks.idk