jelly of friends? not feeling like i belong
heya guys, idk why but everytime i look at my friends social media posts i always feel so excluded and alone. even though they haven't visibly shown dislike to me i always feel as though i'm intentionally left out. i'm the first to reach out on everything, noone talks to me unless i talk to them first. I talked to my therapist about dis and i guess i just have to follow her advice "don't base your happiness on your friends) and Y'know friends come and go! maybe they just aren't meant to stay in my life and thats OK
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dropthesnow1_00
I sorta feel the same way ish like I have this friend who we met in middle school but talked more in high school and had classes together. now shes in uni and oddly throwing parties and idk why but when she posts those I think "we both are so different,if we never had classes together maybe we wouldn't have even been friends at all.." idk it makes no sense to me but yeah :b mb I'm just jealous she actually having a social life compared to me :b
yeah heh i always get embarrassed when i see my friends obviously going out to parties and stuff i feel like i need to catch up..
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rollandrock
Some people have a lot on their minds, and forget to check in because of their own problems! It’s easy to feel left out, and everyone does sometimes. That doesn’t make the feeling any less valid, but maybe let them know that you feel that way sometimes.
noted! ill reach out to them sometime
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