I tend to develop crushes really easily. The hard part is understanding if i actually like them and the person they are or if i just Ike the attention that they give me. I think it’s the second option which really sucks because I end up realizing too late that I don’t like them and I just like that they like me. I can address this after the fact, but when im with a person I think that I genuinely like them until everything they do icks me out. Advice?
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666beats_xx
i think u r confusing attachment w romance, i used 2 be like dat too :^) my best advice is to start focusing on urself moar!! yes, connections are very important. but. self love is important 2 ;;; u shoudl also ground urself and stay disciplined n stufff ^_^ its not easy and its easier said than done but i believe u can fight through it;; stay safe ^_^!!!!
unicornaemia
Romance Is This Big Messy Spectrum Of Esotericism And Hormones That I Personally Believe Is Far Too Complicated For Any Attempt At Discernment. My Best Advice Is To Try And Go With The Flow And Don't Read Too Much Into It All. I Struggled With A Borderline Obsession Over Such Thoughts And The Only Thing That Got Me Out Was Focusing On Myself And Viewing My Love Life As An Ever-ebbing And Flowing Sidebar To My Life As A Whole. Wish You The Best.