TW for like: P0rn mention, z00, P3d0, n3cr0, k1nks, S@, and R@p3 mentions
Idc if this is 'offensive', why does EVERY man, yes EVERY male, think with their dick. I don't think I've ever met a guy who doesn't think without his dick, every straight man I've seen does it AND every gay man I've seen does it. Also this isn't just Teenage boys its also little boys and grown ass men, Its literally all males.
and yes, Ik its lowkey weird to say that little boys also think with their dick, BUT OH MY GOD, The Firetruck game literally was happening in middle school. If you don't know what the firetruck game is, its basically a boy can touch a girl in really inappropriate places, that's basically the whole premise of a game.
Teenage boys treat girls like holes and that's literally it i think, there been like no healthy relationships in my school from what I've seen. literally once, two of my friends saw some guy fully GROPE, like hand to body GRIP, GROP a girls vagina. In public. In school. what.
Grown ass men have made multiple sites where they objectify women. There's a site where men post videos of girls just walking around normally and the comments look like their straight out of a fucking porn site, ITS JUST NORMAL GIRLS WALKING AROUND, they aren't undressed or or anything like that, just in normal clothes walking around; and its even fucking worse when you find out then there are CHILDREN, FUCKING CHILDREN, LITTLE GIRLS, on that site. There's another site where men talk about Grape fantasies that they have, they talk about Graping their Wives, Daughters, MOMS, Etc, basically any fucking girl.
I could find a new male youtuber or influencer and they seem great but all they do is think with their dick. There's this guy i followed recently on Instagram called Austyn Crispell, He makes videos where he gets people's numbers and calls them and will do things like make bullies apologize to their victims, or he warns people about their partner cheating on them, etc etc. Even though he makes videos like that and i think that they are helpful and good, it still pisses me off how he constantly makes sexual jokes, especially about his dick. Also men think they can make jokes about the Files, or Zoophilia, Pedophilia, Neophilia, and other shit like that WHEN THAT STUFF IS LITREALLY HARMFUL to the environment and world.
Also yes i know for the Files, Necro, Pedo, and Zoo stuff its 'NoT aLl MeN' BUT IDC. At least 50% or more men joke about the Files (that's one is not a real researched percentage). 92% of men fantasies AND OR COMMIT Neophilia. In a study with 1,228 people they found out that 67% of the men there were Zoophiles. In 2014-2018 the search 'Teen' was looked up over millions of times on porn sites. Along with Teen being looked up on those sites the most common looked up things are Amateur, Lesbian, Roleplay, and Aggressive content.
If you don't get what any of those are here's a small breakdown of them in:
Amateur: Not with a porn company, Realistic, No formal contracts, Accessible to anyone.
lesbian: A Lesbian is a AFAB (Assigned Female At Birth) person who has attraction either romantically, sexually, or platonically, to other Girls. If you identify as a male or are AMAB then you cannot be a lesbian, but if you are AFAB and identify as anything that isn't Male or Female then yes you can still be a lesbian.
Roleplay: It can range from thing to thing, it can be just reading scripts and saying sexual stuff into a microphone to acting like someone else or something else and wearing stuff to act like them too.
Aggressive: Its usually when someone gets Physically hurt (Hit, slapped, whipped, hair pulling, squeezing) and it can range from being completely consensual to being nonconsensual (If the person that is getting hurt didn't consent then that would be considered SA).
There was a study that showed that when a person watched a lot of violent abusive porn, then they'd be less empathetic, more 'assertive', and hostile towards WOMEN. Another study was done and it showed that more men looked up violent porn unlike women.
I couldn't find real statistics but i looked up stuff that was was roleplayed in porn stuff and the things that i was given were The teacher and student, Stripper and customer, cheerleader and football player, strangers at a bar, the star of your favorite movie, the fireman, the control freak, Hollywood actor and their secret admirer, favorite TV duo, dance teacher and student, innocent vs not innocent, boss and employee, hotel maid and guest, stepmom, meeting stranger, sibling, authority figure, first time, and honestly that's me only naming a little of the ones i saw.
The ones like Teacher and Student or Boss and employee, and Authority or just any of the ones like those figure can be bad and hurtful, lots of people age 8 and up have been exposed to porn (yes people under 8 years old have maybe also seen porn but its mostly 8 and up) and if they see someone who's supposed to help you grow or someone you're supposed to not have a big connection with being acted out like this then that can affect them and make them think that that's how the real world is.
With the ones like Stripper and customer or the Hollywood actor ones, they can also feed into people's delusions and if someone's delusion gets fed into enough then there is a chance that they can think this is real and try to do it; You may be wondering why i brought the stripper one into this and that's because Strippers aren't sexual playthings, that's not what they are, they don't care about you, only your money, but the roleplayers make it seem to be like they want more to do with you when that's not true, also in movies it shows lots of strippers being SA'ed when again, that's not really true, Strip clubs are normally safe spaces for the workers (I say normally but it also depends on the location!!).
Again, with the ones about work, Its sexualizing things that are genuinely helpful and turning it into a porn category, Like the firefighters, they get sexualized so much that i feel like people actually forget their true purpose, literally speaking form personally experience, once my brother was watching a firefighter show and my mom 'jokingly' said "See any sex yet", No mom, We see them fight fire's and save families. I don't like police but its the same with them, don't sexualize them.
With the Step mom or the siblings, that's literally just feeding into insect, i don't need to explain how bad it is.
With the innocent and non-innocent thing or the 'first time' thing i also feel like that feeds into Pedo culture, lots of men like the idea of taking girls virginity or taking their innocence, Lots of women have already been with guys and maybe had sex with them in the past, so they aren't virgins, and a lot of them have grown up and not became innocent, but you know what is innocent and a virgin? LITTLE GIRLS. That's why roleplaying that stuff is bad, you are acting younger and feeding into fake delusions.
For the Lesbian term being searched up the most, its mostly women looking it up, WHICH IS OKAY BECASUE GIRLS CAN LIKE GIRLS AND WANT TO SEE GIRLS ON GIRLS IF THEY LIKE GIRLS, its just not okay when its a guy, because most of the time they just fetishizes Lesbians and treat them like a porn category when they see us in real life. IF SHE A LESBIAN, SHE DONT WANT YOUR DICK, SHE WANT THAT VAGINA.
I lowkirkinly don't know what else to write, erm, I'll update this maybe.
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Maxine
I believe the main cause for this is socialization, but I do acknowledge that testosterone *does* often change the experience of sexual arousal, and porn is made to specifically take advantage of the way men experience it. Porn can be consumed by anyone of any gender, but that potential to "think with your dick" does seem to develop in trans men post-transition, which makes it seem like the experience is somewhat hormonal. I did see this happen LIVE with my ex, and many people online seem to have similar experiences. This doesn't mean men inherently think with their dick, but that their sexual arousal operates a way that makes it easy.
We live in a society that SPECIFICALLY panders to that "second brain" in guys pants, it doesn't give power to the women in sexual dynamics at all. Women are constantly sold the lie that objectification is empowerment, when all it really does is reinforce a patriarchal power dynamic. I think the best thing we can do to combat this is to confront these behaviors without hesitation, while still operating out of empathy. We need to make a world where this isn't normalized, I don't think it's natural and everyone suffers for as long as we continue to live like this. Even men are unhappy with the structure they've built, they just don't realize it's the reason they feel so empty. Men need to be taught the importance of connection and vulnerability, instead of being expected to fill their emptiness with lust and pornography.
Women have largely been taught to prioritize love and vulnerability, and we've seen the fulfillment that comes with that, though I believe this has been changing in recent years. We're seeing a rise in objectifying women who disregard people for the sake of lust, in a similar fashion to how so many men do, and I think this shows how socialization is the main contributor to this phenomenon. I think pornography has been pandering to the ways men experience arousal, but now that we're seeing more porn target women and smut becoming mainstream, we can see how easy it is for women to also form objectifying and/or degenerate sexual behaviors.
hay
i will say that is is extremely normalized in majority of cultures for men to “think with their dicks” and it’s really sad. like the saying “boys will be boys” is promoting the behaviors of parents and peers disregarding alarming behavior because it’s “just how a boy acts”
one of the reasons i broke up with my ex was because he seriously told me he thinks with his dick #stillavirginandimokaywithit
I hate the saying 'boys will be boys', they say it whenever a boy does something bad and its pathetic. The people who say that need to wake up and actually punish the bad stuff that these boys are doing instead of brushing it off or even rewarding it and thinking they'll never do it again, like noo, thats just going to make the behavior worsee. sighhh 😞
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TommyzHeart
I get off topic so easy (even if it was still kinda on topic but not what i was mainly going to talk about) HELP