Mom yelling for no reason and then acting like I'm in the wrong when I don't like it

So I was just awoken, mom yelled for us to wake up, fine whatever it was ten the latest we are allowed to wake up, and then when I went downstairs to make it known that I am awake because she'd keep yelling if I didn't, Bender went down at the same time and mom wasn't happy that he came down at the last minute so she was talking in a slightly louder than normal volume and the part I heard she said 'fuck off, all of you, do your work' so I left before I even fully got down the stairs, and then she yelled for us to bring down our dishes, do you want us do our work or not? anyway I went to the bathroom first cuz she can spare a minute and she never starts on dishes when she tells us to bring them down, but then she yelled again GIVE ME TWO FUCKING SECONDS so I brought them down and packed away my part of the clean dishes, and I didn't say anything because I probably would've gotten attitude, and I bet you a million bucks that when I left Mom and Alice (she was already downstairs drinking coffee) talked about my "attitude" I don't like being yelled at first thing in the morning, my bad, and another time this happened was 4 days ago when I went downstairs to get a snack but there was a spider in the bowl (no clue how) so I went to put the spider outside, and I happened to pass Alice and Mom taking the dog on a walk, and mom told me to clean out the kitty litter, so I went back inside and got my snack cuz I figured I can still pour out a portion before I go do the litter it only took like two seconds, so I did and mom came in right then and saw me and said 'Seriously?! Fine do it after, then' not yelling but not normal volume either, it's not gonna explode if I leave it there for two seconds longer, it's fine mother, and you saw me hold a bowl two seconds ago, what did you think it was for? anyway I really wasn't happy about her tone so after she left I put my snack back, grabbed Esme cuz I dump it out, she puts fresh sand and puts it back, and then did the kitty litter and passed by mom and Alice again outside and mom said in a nice sweet tone 'oh you decided to get it over with' and my dumb ass said 'no, I just didn't like your tone' and then Alice said 'Well maybe you should've done it the first time she asked' FUCK YOU OH MY GODDD, so anyway I did my part of the litter and swiftly went back inside so I could cry because I'm sensitive and stupid, I've spent twenty-five minutes writing this, I gotta do my work now