So lately I feel like my boyfriend has been changing. And I love him soooo much! But I’m scared that the last 2.5 years of this relationship have been for nothing now. Really fast story time tho, okay so back in 2024 we met at a local race track, that’s why we got together, we both loved racing and shared interests and obviously, we were into each other. But he’s been loosing interest in racing, not to mention I stopped doing local races in 2025. The reason why we had such a strong bond is cause we saw each other every Saturday and Sunday. Now, we do live nearby each other , but we’re both working all the time. The weird thing is tho, he doesn’t wanna go pro in racing like me, which is weird cause that’s literally every racers goal. He just wants to do all the local races, probably cause he wins all the races but still! He refuses to go to national races with me which is so weird. Anyways let me get back to the main reason why I’m concerned. So recently he hasn’t been saying “I love you” back to me. The first time I noticed this I was just like “okay he’s been having a rough day I get it”. Either way tho he’s been acting so weird that even MY dad noticed it. I just hope he still loves me, I literally can’t imagine the rest of my life without him. He just makes me feel like a little girl again and when I see him my eyes grow wider and I can’t stop smiling. And when we hug I feel warm and safe and I do that dumb girly squeal in my head. When I pray, he’s included. I’m getting off track, back to point. I know he’s not scared to say “I love you” he says those words in front of our parents, at the track, dinner, or hell even at church. I just hope he’s okay, I know he hates opening up but if something was wrong I’d hope he’d tell me.
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Razzmatazz
You should ask him what's up, and that you are concerned. Honestly with stuff like this being upfront about it can really help. It's scary but sometimes you just need to start a serious conversation to let someone let it all out. I have struggles with telling people when something is wrong too and especially starting serious conversations. Maybe he's holding onto something he shouldn't be?
Ive tried to ask his a few times these past few months and every time it’s “ nothings wrong, why would u think that”
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Cysper04
Hm, I don't know what to say.... But maybe he's going through something just looking at what you said or maybe something is up with him that you and your dad doesn't know.
Regarding, him not wanting to go to Professional Races and insisting of just sticking on Local Races for me sounds like he doesn't like to lose and he wanna stick on Local Races because that's where he's the best at.
"I literally can’t imagine the rest of my life without him."
I don't know how to say this but let me tell you something.
Not to offend you, but there's more to life than that and I hope you'll see it someday.
You can actually have life without him and there's more to life without him.
I completely get what you’re saying, and no I’m not offended I should probably make that clear first. But, its not like he’s my whole world and he’s the only thing I think about. I know that I can survive without him, I’ve just haven’t imagined doing that since we’ve met. And on the whole racing thing, I just think it’s weird cause he used to take this more serious than me. Thanks for the feedback tho
by Big_dih_madzzz; ; Report
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No Problem. :)
by Cysper04; ; Report