my ex keeps finding me

very strange post but i needed to rant because i literally cant escape my ex??!!! 

we started dating sometime in 2022 and broke up in 2023, of which was a very ROCKY break up and not necessarily mutual but also not really NOT mutual?? it was so weird…but anyway, after so long we actually started being friends again and coincidentally he ended up getting me with the boyfriend I had for abt 3 years up until this month (THAT break up was 1000% better and much more thorough) 

But anyway, sometime in 2024 i think, he just. DISAPPEARED. Like just gone. i think that there was some drama between the friend group as a whole but he genuinely just stopped talking to ALL of us (us as in me, my then bf, and his best friend) 

we went on regularly for a while until i started noticing there were anon accounts that had no real info on them following me and viewing my stuff and all that and after so long I started to realize that it was my ex. Now, by this time, i had since had developed new social media accounts that he wouldn't be able to get ahold of unless he went deliberately digging for them through OTHER accounts

another thing i noticed was that he started to get into ALL the stuff i liked, which wouldnt be an issue had it not been on such a weird level. Early last year i was pretty into ER (that NBC show with noah wyle), and HE got into it super hard. Then he started to get more into the Rejects and i freaked out and i blocked some of his socials that were following me

But THIS MONTH he contacted me through ANOTHER ACCOUNT on tumblr and almost got me to add his number to my contacts again before i had my (then) bf and his friend telling me to not trust him. After that, it was sort of the tipping point for me and my bf and we ended up breaking up: so now, im sad as FUCK, mad as HELL, and the guy keeps finding me

i literally dont know what to do because if i block him hes still gonna find me somewhere else and i dont want to just delete all my stuff and start anew because of one guy :-/