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My friend pmo

So I have this friend right let’s call her the big m, she recently got a boyfriend we (my friend group) are all happy for her but she’s been acting really different and it’s so annoying. A couple of weeks ago I sat down next to her and she fully starts going “noooo noooo” in this whiney voice. It was 8:10am and her boyfriend normally arrives closer to 8:30, the thing is it’s not okay when any of our friend group sits next to her but when this one girl from one of the school bands does it it’s ok…I told her I’d move when he came and she goes “thank you” in the same voice. I was genuinely so annoyed like girl what was that for. 


Another thing she has done is call her bf for 2 hours while I was over at her house. She asked me if she could and I originally said “no im here to hangout with you not to watch you call your boyfriend” and then later I said “you know what call him I’ll give him a piece of my mind” as a joke, i assumed it would be like a 30 minute call or smt but it went for 2 hours. Like dude what??? Why did I even come over?? And when I said to her “dude Im here to see you can we do something” she kept saying no in that fuckass whiney voice.


ALSO at school and on the bus her and her boyfriend cuddle up to each other and it’s actually so disgusting i cant do it I want to spew when I see them…ok now my ex and I would also do similar stuff but we would only lean our head on each other and maybe hold hands but otherwise we were normal but the big m and her bf are like fully going PDA it’s gross and at school??? At least my ex and I would only do it in an empty bus or train carriage…


also she doesn’t really make an effort to hang out with the group anymore and now she’s actually taking care of herself which we are all glad about because she genuinely stinks so bad but it’s only now that she cares??? Not when people are not even facing her because of how bad the smell is from not only her but her mouth. It’s like a sour disgusting smell and she has acid reflux which from what I’ve found out can cause a smell like that but apparently this can (also while I was writing this my teacher said to a student “Don’t pmo” Im crine) like improved by changing diet and she eats fast food almost every single day…(btw her family is broke and they are a family of 5, they prolly spend like $200-300 on fast food every week and her mother just never cooks or almost never cooks…literally getting microwave or food to put in the oven at home is cheaper than getting the food even delivered) there’s no way she doesn’t know about the smell because her family definitely knows and theyre the type of people to tell her…also she didn’t know the difference between deodorant and body mist and apparently her mother wouldn’t buy her deodorant…dude wtf???? She had to take it from her brother…Also she doesn’t really shower much like once or twice a week and says she doesn’t have the time but literally girl go wash your armpits in the sink you reek of sweat please. 


Anyway sorry guys I got a bit mad

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Alright, as someone's said here yeah you're not crazy and you're brutally honest here.


I think maybe just give her some space and leave her alone..... If she doesn't reach out to you to see you to hang out with you then I think that means you're no longer important to her.

I have a good feeling when they broke up she'd come over to you to just whine and cry and then you'd tell her to move on then later they'd come back together again then broke up again and she'd come over to you again then repeat over and over again.


I think it's not really worth it anymore, just leave her I guess.

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This is a very valid thing to be annoyed about! When I was younger most relationships were like that and being friends with someone in one was AWFUL. You're not crazy you're so real