My gf and I were together for less than three days and I thought her and her bf were in an open relationship. She told me today that they're not. She told me when she told me they were in an open relationship that she was going to break up with him. Turns out she's not bc 'things have been getting better between them lately'. Today I got broken up with after I found out she was cheating on her bf with me. It explains why she told me not to tell anyone about us. She said she 'got her feelings mixed up' with me and said that she 'still wants to be friends'. Apparently, I can't be in a single relationship with someone without it going wrong. She treated me so well in out very short relationship and I feel like shit knowing she's with someone else and is a cheater. Idk what to do
My gf just broke up with me and apparently I was the other man
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londyn . ⊹ ₊ ݁
im so sorry :( i hope you feel better soon, i know its hard to be cheated on or lied to. if you have any of her socials make sure to look through all her followers, following friends etc in case her boyfriend is somewhere on her page.
I don't have any of her socials :(
by ꧁✩☺︎JesterBoy☺︎✩꧂; ; Report
this sounds morally neutral but what i did 4 a similar situation is make a believeable alt account (if this is occuring online) and pretend to be her friend until you can get her socials. if this is irl though you can probably ask around!
by londyn . ⊹ ₊ ݁; ; Report
It's irl :(
by ꧁✩☺︎JesterBoy☺︎✩꧂; ; Report
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do the only thing you can do, tell her bf.
if you have solid proof (texts, gifts, pics, etc) go to him with them
he deserves to know, and you deserve better than her. you lose them how you get them, if she was willing to lie and cheat on him she probably wouldve done the same to you...
never trust anyone who says to keep the relationship secret unless theyre doing it because it would out them to dangerous people, since you and your ex were in a hetero relationship it doesnt make sense why she'd be so scared for other people to find out, even if its polyamorous (or polygamous in this case)
not blaming you at all, but always stay vigilant especially when it comes to things like relationships
i hope you find your soulmate and she gets her ass dumped!! >:(
side note... this layout is sooo prettyyy...
I don't know her bf is the thing tho but thank you for the kind comment!
by ꧁✩☺︎JesterBoy☺︎✩꧂; ; Report