a quick note
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trigger warnings: stalking, violence, abuse, police
He has ruined my mothers life.
5 years ago they met in town and hit it off. Anytime she saw him they'd just stop n' talk and she actually still mentions how much she enjoyed their first conversations :(
vent post // reader discretion advised
trigger warnings: stalking, violence, abuse, police
now that my family has legal protection, I finally feel I can share my experience
its hard to put years of drama into words so some details may be left out
feel free to share your own experience, judge mine, ask questions or wtvr lol
okay lets get into itits hard to put years of drama into words so some details may be left out
feel free to share your own experience, judge mine, ask questions or wtvr lol
He was homeless, no judgement there, we’ve been homeless many times too but he asked to keep his belongings at our place, that would’ve been fine if he didn't overstep and continue to do so. He asked her out around that time.
They started dating.
After a week passed he asked if he could stay until he found a place, which became a week, 2 weeks, a month, a year…he never fucking left and became verbally abusive
So I started taking action. I would call 911/report him, the police would escort him away (no idea if that meant jail or dropped off somewhere else) regardless he would just come back, somehow end up back on our couch like nothing happened. It got legally complicated with squatting laws protecting him like, even the police couldn't kick him out until we successfully banned him from our neighborhood.
He got arrested, years passed, I moved to Michigan with my bf at 19, i was focused on life, working, even thinking about going to college there… I didn't get a single call from mom, and her texts started becoming worrying like every text was going to be her last..she wouldn't explain anything to me. I decided to drop everything and move back home, 01/01/26, unfortunately not in time for Christmas but still very exciting to see my family!!
...well well well he was right there sitting on the fucking couch AGAIN
They “made up” and “started dating” …again…
BS?? HE CANT EVEN BE HERE WHAT??
I can not describe the type of adrenaline I felt in that moment but yeah, he actually came back and forced his way into the house at some point . He would treat her like a child, reprimanding her over the smallest things, becoming violent when alone together to try and manipulate her to do/help him with whatever he wants..insane behavior.
I don’t even know the full extent of how badly he treated her, as soon as I learned the truth I reported him to authorities and he was arrested…again lol
My mom actually felt bad about it, worried he’d be on the street but no, lol actually no, he had an emergency place to stay this entire time?!
AND SO HE CONTINUES…….
..He watches us from the tree lines, waiting for the porch light to intercept my mom (meaning mom’s out smoking)
..Our neighbor actually caught him looking through our windows at night
(found his broken glasses on the ground lol so it must've been on-sight, thanks tony)
..Threatening calls, texts, voicemails from many different phone #’s bonus fact: when he first got arrested for this, he sent so many nasty jail letters to my grandma that she cut us off due to the stress..he's NEVER even MET grandma.
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Gaiety_and_Insanity
Holy fucking shit this sounds awful. If I were you, I would try to avoid the situation and this guy as much as possible, he seems really dangerous. If you actually like your family though, I'd try to have a long conversation with your mom on to permanently drop this guy first. If she doesn't, then I would suggest cutting her off for now for your own safety.
Still your choice though, the situation's pretty complex. I hope you can find a solution to this
thank you so much! that's pretty much the action we've taken, we have talks often and it was hard for her to go no-contact, she'd even secretly meet up with him which was super dangerous. (he was def luring) the last time they interacted/ran into each other in public she had to dip into a store to call 911, luckily now shes only documenting instead of responding or deleting everything. & we just got legal protections which will help alot!!
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