I saw a girl posting about being a mother earlier and her thoughts on one day being one and it made me realize that I might wan to be a mom one day... but I want to be a single mom, I dont know why. I know my future daughter would need another figure in her life (if im not mistaken, correct me if im wrong) I want to pursue hockey for my future and I'd love to have a daughter who can look up to me and come to all my games :')
That would be the CUTESTTT THING EVURRR !!!!! Am i crazy?
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plqntbby
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i totally get what ur saying, but as someone who was adopted from a single mother, I will be ever so grateful that I had a father figure! But ever child is different for sure. I would also like to say, you can have that relationship with your child if they have another parent in their life 100%!!! I would die to have that with my mom!
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Not to stamp out your dreams but there's a good chance your potential future daughter would want to be just like you with a father as well, id argue just as good of a chance.
Up to you if you believe this but meta-analysis across parenthood studies show a steep decline in favorable life results of children with single parents. Worse high school graduation rate, higher criminality likelihood, higher mental disorder, and so on. Also usually doesn't work out when you expect your kids to follow suit, they're separate beings.
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4508674/
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/33574152/
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5472317/
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we love single mothers there
Cysper04
Alright, I don't know what to say..... But I hope you'd have a really successful Hockey Career if you ever decided to have aHockey Career.
Maybe you ever considered adopting one? Not sure if Adoption for Single Women was actually allowed there if they do then hopefully you'd be eligible.
I planned on doing adoption, I feel like giving birth could put a toll to my body -- a body that needs to be in perfect condition for my sport
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