Never feeling at home

No matter where I am, I never feel welcome. My house never feels like home, more like a hotel I go in and out of at will. I have basically no free time- I run my house at 14 years old. I do everything from cooking breakfast to doing everyone’s laundry, folding it, and putting it away in their separate places and rooms. Every every adult in the house tells me “ welcome to being an adult” when the most they do is go to work and come back and then do nothing, I am the maid, Butler, chef, and child. I feel comfortable nowhere where I go because I’m always required to do something for everyone else. And the second I need something there’s nobody there. They want a miniature adult that they can offload everything they don’t wanna do onto, but still be able to yell at and control without that person being able to say no. I even have to remind them to pay taxes, or they will forget. We almost didn’t have water last month because they just straight up Forgot to pay it.