People who SH for attention are just as messed up in the head as you are btw/Pessoas que praticam SH por atençao estao ferradas da cabeça igual a vc!

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Not trying to be Captain Obvious here, but seriously, since when do you negate someone else's pain just because they are literally HURTING themselves for attention? I know it must be kind of frustrating to see someone doing that just for attention, but don't you think it's bizarre that the motivation for someone to be HURTING themselves is just for attention? Like, how mentally needy must that person (usually teenagers/young adults) be to put themselves in a situation like that? I honestly worry about these people, like, they need help as much as you do!

Well, I wasn't doing it for attention, I mean, more or less, I was in a very strong euphoric crisis, and I get hypersexual and I started hurting myself because I felt pleasure in it at the same time, I wanted to prove to my mother that I was mentally unwell. From my story, you can see that self-harm doesn't have just one "right" motivation, but self-harm remains harmful regardless of the motivation.

That said, I think that people who do this, who hurt themselves and then tell everyone about it, actually just want to feel seen. These people are usually considered annoying even at home! So I think it's fair that we start practicing our empathy and love for others, care and compassion. Instead of just pointing the finger at that person, try sitting next to them and listening to them for once; that would already resolve the situation a little!

Also remember that: biting, scratching, pulling your hair until strands come out, stabbing yourself with a pen (without bleeding), or punching the wall or yourself because you're angry at yourself or not because you don't know how to react to a bad feeling, THAT IS ALSO SH! If you do any of these things or do something that hurts you even without bleeding, please seek help!

This is serious, you don't need to bleed to prove you're unwell, you don't need to get worse to receive help, you're human, and whatever your reason: pleasure, anger, sadness, or attention, all are valid if you're reaching the point of hurting yourself because of it!

Anyway, just my opinion, BYEEEE

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Nao e querendo ser o capitao obvio aqui, mas gente, desde quando vc anula a dor do proximo so pelo fato dele esta literalmente se FERINDO pra ter atençao? Eu sei que deve ser meio frustrante ver alguem fazendo isso so por atençao, mas vcs nao acham bizarro que a motivaçao pra pessoa esta se FERINDO seja so por atençao? Tipo, o quao mentalmente carente essa pessoa (normalmente adolescentes/jovens adultos) devem estar pra se por em uma situaçao dessas? Eu honestamente fico preocupado com essas pessoas, tipo, elas precisam de ajuda tanto quanto voce!

Bem, eu nao praticava por atençao, quer dizer, mais ou menos, eu estava em uma crise de euforia bem forte, e eu fico hipersexual e comecei a me machucar pq sentia prazer nisso ao mesmo tempo, que queria provar que estava mal mentalmente para minha mae. E da minha historia, vc ja ver q se machucar nao tem apenas uma motivaçao ''certa'', mas se machucar continua sendo ruim independente da motivaçao.

Dito isso, eu acho que as pessoas q fazem isso, se machucam e saem falando pra todos, na real so querem se sentir vistas, normalmente essas pessoas sao consideradas chatas ate dentro de casa! Entao, acho justo começarmos a treinar nossa empatia, amor ao proximo, cuidado e a compaixao, ao inves de vc sair so apontando o dedo para essa pessoa, experimenta sentar do lado dela, e a ouvir pela primeira vez, isso ja resolveria um pouco a situaçao.

Lembrando tambem, que: se morder, se arranhar, puxar seus cabelos ate sairem fios, se furar com a caneta (sem sair sangue) ou dar murros na parede ou em vc pq esta com raiva de vc ou nao pq nao sabe como reagir a um sentimento ruim, TAMBEM É SH! Se vc faz algumas dessas ou faz algo q te machuca mesmo sem sangrar, por favor, procure ajuda! 

Isso é serio, vc nao precisa sangrar pra provar que esta mal, vc nao precisa piorar pra receber ajuda, voce e humano, e seja la seu motivo: prazer, raiva, tristeza ou atençao, todos sao validos se vc esta chegando ao ponto de se ferir por culpa disso!

enfim, apenas minha opniao, BYEEEE