pressure to use labels...

Does anyone else feel like this CrAzY pressure to pick a label for their sexuality/gender?

people (to me at least) are always saying shyt like, "I can't imagine you with a man!" *laughs*   OR "Are you sure ur nawt gay? you could be bi or pan? maybe look into it!"

Do I really need to pick a label?

So, i do what i do best and smile :)

but GAWD i find these people insufferable. Can I not be in between? im just tryn' figure it out bro..

DONT get me started on the whole gender shyt!

im AFAB, but currently idk where i am on the whole binary, so i go by any fr idc. which ive told like like my close friends (the plural is used lightly here). 

so i need them to understand... 

...when i say "I dont know." it doesn't mean 'help me figure it out' 

It Means I DONT KNOW.   

its all bullshyt if you ask me. Male, Female, All, both, None, Other.

why dafq does anyone care! we are all people who breath and shyt!

all ur giving me is a lil hint at what ur packing and i dont give a SINGLE FUCK, unless we're gonna fuck...even then it dont matter. i work with anything.

Literally all i hear when someone say "hi im jordan he/him btw" is "hi im BDB jordan with the most MASSSIVE you've ever seen.

NOTE: this is nawt me shytting on people decisions use labels. If that is what makes you feel at home in your skin live ur freaking life bro. Im not some rude fuck who's gonna go misgendering ppl just because i dont think it matters. It matters to that person and imma be respectful of that always.

Frankly I dont care where people place me on the whole thing, just stopp pressuring me ganglions💔