Pulling someone out of a group convo.

I know this is such a nothing problem but it drives me insane when you're in a FULL GROUP CHAT and someone goes, "blank Private chat me". I understand if the person is actively ignoring you, but the amount of times people say it just to say it. OUUUU HOW IT DRIVES ME INSANE. If you wanna talk to em so bad message them in DMS. No need to make everyone everyone ponder on what you're doing just because you wanna be mysterious. The amount of times i've learned what they pulled them out the gc for is insane. When I tell you it's some BULLSHIT THING. I swear it be "what did you eat for lunch." Could you not have waited for them to see it.