reality..shifting..(ANTIS PLS LEAVE ME ALONE)

AGAIN, ANTIS PLSPLSPLS DON'T READ THIS, I'M GETTING MAD.

- this doesn't go to alllll shifters. I'm just speaking my opinion

Anyway, I LUV my s/o. When I want to do some sort of meditation or visualize, I ALWAYYYSS think about my s/o. I won't disclose who my s/o is, but just know that I luv him very much. I feel like a lot of reality shifters don't realize that their s/o has feelings, reactions, thoughts, OPINIONS, because they are true real people. I understand that a lot of people tend to romanticize them, but I think something that can help people with shifting (especially if you're specifically shifting for love) is understanding that their s/o isn't going to be some sort of zombie or robot that you program to have no negative thoughts and whatnot. You could potentially argue, disagree with them, get mad at them. Because they're real. Another problem is people FETISHIZING their partners. I won't be going into detail, but the way some people talk about their partners is gross. The point I'm trying to get across is that you can love your s/o, but it's your job to realize that they're not your pet that you get to control whenever you feel like it. If you love your s/o, speak about them with love.