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Should I cut off my friends?

Ok, so I’m thinking of cutting off my friends. Not because they’re necessarily bad people or anything, it’s more like their mindsets, if you know what I mean?

Basically my friends are kinda like average teenage girls who have drama and talking stage and what not, but they’re also kinda sexual and it makes me pretty uncomfortable sometimes. Like, they’ll make jokes (and we all do), but sometimes they get to much. Plus when it comes to boys it’s like that all they care about. Most of our chats are of them talking about boys and doing stuff with them. Not sex just yet, but it’s always really close, like makeouts and touching. They also have this mindset like they’re dogging men or something, but we’re still teens you know? So it feels more like they’re trying to be older than they actually are. Not to mention, they’ll talk to all these people they hardly know and like share locations or go and meet them and have them over at their houses.

Idk. I’m not personally someone who try’s to be sexual cause of stuff from my past, but I try not to push it onto others. Just it’s starting to get too much. Especially when that’s all they tend to talk about. I’m not really sure what to do or if I should say something? I just don’t want to make things awkward or into a big deal.

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uh... meeting up and giving locations to ppl they barely know is actually kidna a big deal... its dangrous af and not just for them but also for the ppl they live with. obvi i dont know these ppl so idk if they would take it well but it might be worth it to say something about safety. also ya society really does force kids to grow up too fast so its not really their fault for internalizing that but it is still really concerning stuff... do u think they would take it well if u confronted them about it? maybe gently or subtly or something?