(just fyi, these ppl and I have been friends 4 about 5-6+ years)
I don't know what 2 do any more w/ my friends. I love them all, don't get me wrong, but it's almost every time I'm trying my best for them, it feels like they just prob don't like me or don't care. I grew up being very out doors-ish, so I know I can be rough, especially when teasing (but never on the point of bullying, I know better), but I've always been the kid my friends could lean on, and I'm used to it, I love hearing my friends talk (especially if they're talking abt their interests, past, etc) but now I just feel like no one talks to me anymore, and it makes me feel like a horrible friend and that I'm not trying hard enough to be there for them. I understand everyone changes, and things can happen, and we've all got something going on, but I just feel so out of place compared to everyone else. I just don't know what to do anymore, and it just feels like no one wants to meet me halfway anymore, and doing all of this myself stresses me out sm. I'm not forcing anyone to talk to me, but I just don't feel like I belong anymore. Almost everyone I know has had a partner or is currently dating, or has had some shit go down, and I don't know because no one tells me. I think they just prob don't trust me (which is okay, I respect them either way if they do or don't) I'm going in2 high school in only a few months, which makes me think if I should just stop trying or keep going..I honestly can't do it anymore.
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Communication is key in relationships.
Pamcasso
Look, something similar happened to me when I got in highschool. And not to sound like an old man, but these things happen. As u said, you're about to start a new life stage, at that age is completely normal to feel out of place. Everyone around you's going through life differently, some have girlfriends or people they're dating and that makes them lose focus on their friends and people around them, and I also know from experience that sometimes you just drift away from the people u used to hang out with. Even if you've been friends for a looong time. It sucks but it's part of growing up, I know u would like it to be different but at the end of the day we cant control how other people feel about us. I think if u really wanna know what exactly's going on you should just talk about it with your friends and if they care about you they'll give u a straight answer, maybe they don't even know they're making u feel that way. Whatever it is, don't feel bad, remember that's life, people come and go and you're about to get in highschool, that's such a good place to find new friends and have a lot of new experiences!! Keep moving forward, man
Unrelated but is that juggalo makeup ?
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Nope, it's just a random clown makeup i did a while back 🤡
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Opinions on it would be appreciated if you'd like to share what u think