spider lilies wedding

I was never a kid that planned my wedding as a kid I didn't believe in stuff like that till I met the guy I'm with now and he said he really wants us to have spider lilies which planning the flowers is a lot of the of planning the whole wedding and I don't hate it and knew I wanted fake flowers anyway but spider lilies don't have a good vase life but I think it's weird with how popular Tokyo ghoul is that I can't find any weddings with red spider lilies I'm also planning on having white roses too he will have both tattooed but the wedding also this will be a church wedding with him being Christan and it seems like a way to tie my dead grandma. growing up it always upset her hearing I want kids but not a husband I had just never seen it work out before, but I think would make her happy. we are also darker people in the clothes we wear and when I first started thinking about what a wedding for me would look like I at first wanted a black dress, but they are expensive if you want it to look like a wedding dress in my opinion so this being a darker wedding I don't should shock anyone this is what I'm thinking of for my bouquet:

my bouquet

for bridesmaid dresses I'm thinking burgundy and we haven't decided but there's time also don't judge me for planning a wedding a wedding when I haven't been proposed to this is something we have been talking about for a while and I want to make sure, I'm sure and I'm cheap so I will make a lot myself more than likely without any help really but we might do groomsmen in burgundy dress shirts and black dress pants

groomsmen

 and the grom in either the same plus a black tie or him in a white button-down burgundy tie 

this is the best example I could find but with a normal looking black tie idk why it's so little but yeah

groom opt 1

this one but with black pants 

groom opt 2

let me know what you think