Things that make me absolutely hate my grandpa :3

This is a long rant so have fun if you wanna read it :3

I'm really just making this blog to rant about/expose my grandpa so ye. Quick note, there are times when I do feel bad for him, like when he falls because of his legs and back or about how his first day being a substitute teacher will be because he does not understand how some or a lot of kids, teens, and teenagers are now compared to when he was a history teacher when he was like 20 or 30 years old. 

Anywho, my grandpa is the kind of guy that you'd get pissed off at easily but you wouldn't know what shit he's into(dont know how to describe it but you'll know what I mean in a bit). My grandpa is a really stubborn guy, he tries to do things his way even if he cant. He is a smart guy, he gets it from his dad, but he makes stupid decisions. Back when I was younger(like 9 or 10), his back had gotten pretty messed up like it does a lot of the time. Now he never said anything to my face but had discussed with my mother, saying they should take me out of school to take care of him. He did not mention homeschooling. He wanted to take me out of school To. Take. Care. Of. Him.... I was pissed when my mom told me this, and I was even more pissed when she also told me that he used to take coins out of a baby bottle coin jar that my mom had to save up money for me when I got older to get his daily coffee. He stole money that was ment for me to buy fucking coffee. And even to this day, while my family is struggling with money, he continues to get his goddamn coffee every fucking day when all he fucking does is sit on his ass and watches the news.

Months or maybe a year ago, my grandma was dealing with cancer, and this man did not even help with the payment for her treatment. He didn't ask if she was ok or if she needed help when she waa throwing up, and everytime she did, I'd have to help as much as I could while trying not to puke myself while waiting for my mother to come and help her. I dont know if I should call him greedy but I feel like I should. He would pay for anything that was for him, he would always get his car fixed if it needed to be, if he needed new glasses he would get them, he always took all the money for himself while my grandma barely ever got her car fixed and had the same glasses for over 6 years, she could not get new ones because she could never affors them with him spending everything. 

Now heres the part that'll explain what I mean by "you'd never know what kind of shit he was into". This man, a 68 year old man, married, with 3 kids, was watching porn. And before you say "oh he's an adult, he can do what he wants". My grandma did not know, he would wait till everyone was out of the house before watching it a full volume. I know this because one day I didn't want to go to school so I called my mom and she said I could stay home, but because I wanted a peaceful day without him bothering me, I pretended to walk to my buss stop. I left at the time I always did, snuck to the side of the house, and waited till he left to go get coffee before sneaking back inside. And as soon as he got home, all I could hear was moaning. He still had no idea I was home but the fact that he had never told his own damn wife is disgusting. I had told my mom and she called him, he immediately denied it(obviously) but then my mom called me and said that it was probably a show that he and grandma were watching and that if it was porn then he's a grown man and has every right to watch that kind of stuff. I agree with the last part but again, he never told his wife or asked if she would be comfortable with it. I even caught glimpses of what looked young naked women on his laptop. I wanted to tell my grandma but didn't because what my mom had told me. But finally after a month or two, I told her and she had absolutely no idea that he was doing this, she was very angry and didn't tell me the same as my mom but never said what she was going to do. All that I know is that she confronted him about it. I dont remember what she said to me afterwards but I knew she was thankful that I decided to tell her instead of continuing to keep it to myself. Literally about a month or two after that, he finally apologized to me and my mom for what he did, my mom still somewhat defended him.

Another quick side note. I do not hate my mom at all, I have a good relationship with her but this did piss me off.

I still do not trust that he has stopped watching porn. I will sometimes forget he did because of how he acts like it never even happened, my mom and grandma do to which is reasonable. 

But yea, I've had all this in my head for a while now and I really needed to tell at least one person. I dont feel like I can tell anyone close to me(besides my friends but even then it's not something I'd like bringing up around them even though I know damn well Liam is gonna see this-). Anywho, I just really needed to type this all down in a space where people can actually see and read it(if they want) without one of those people being a family member