UPDATE!! Should I cut off my friends?

Ok, this is just a follow up on my last blog, because I feel like I should at least update on what happened. 

If you didn’t see the first one I made, it was basically just me expressing how I was uncomfortable with the things my friends were doing (sexually jokes, talking about boys and doing stuff with them, etc.). 

Honestly the topic itself wasn’t even able to be addressed. What happened before I could say anything is what ended in the group kinda splitting. To be exact, it was because one of our friends (who moved and has a big time difference, lets call A), was talking about how there were a lot of cute boys where they moved, while two people in the group were having a serious conversation about one friends (Let’s call B) relationship. As a result our other friend (C) “jokingly” kicked out A. Which caused an argument between them, and ultimately leading to A not wanting to come back. When I talked to friend A about it they admitted they were wrong but thought it was weird they were kicked out and disliked how C was treating them, (calling them narcissistic, selfish, etc.). C also texted me and expressed that they thought A was rude and didn’t even bother to read before typing. So because of this situation and past events, A just said their not joining the group again and cut off C and one more person (D) who they had past problems with in the group. They said however that B and I were fine and the only ones they’d even want to be friends with. And ever since A has been slowly cutting off C and D, while the group chat has been less active.

So, yea that’s what happened. I honestly don’t know how things will go from here and I really don’t think they’ll all get along again, but I’m a little sad how it ended. Cause we are were close till A moved, and we didn’t really get to discuss what I was concerned about. Maybe it was just me being oblivious because A said stuff like this had been happening even when they were here but idk. That’s honestly it, sorry if it’s not really an “update” but that’s what’s been happening.