what's your love language and why? ♡ღ

ooh! here's a fun one:
i don't actually believe that everyone has their own separate love languages akin to hogwarts houses (or some other sorting category that doesn't support a raging transphobe but i digress..)
i see it more as,, people express each of the love languages throughout their being in a relationship as part of being in a relationship! and not just romantic ones, Platonic ones as well!
♡✧˚ ༘ ⋆｡♡˚ is this likely common sense? Sure. but the phrasing "my love language" always made it seem as though people fit themselves into categories and identified them by the one method of giving and receiving love, when it can vary.. So much
you may prefer to give love one way and receive it another, you may Love a certain love language with your romantic partner(s) but hate it with your friends! boy,, humans are Complex
all this to say: if we're strictly saying what "my love language" is,, it's all.
now if we're playing favorites..
𐙚˙⋆.˚ ᡣ𐭩 with my girlfriend, i Adore physical touch and words of affirmation, something about being held and told that i'm worth the space i take up on this earth Gets to me <3
that and quality time! for both her AND our friends <3
i love to go on dates, and friend hangouts, and honestly. bantering in itself should be a love language because the silliness in relationships of any kind is half the fun!

so yeah, i'd say i'm a bit of a lover myselfff ˙ᵕ˙𓍢ִ໋ ᰔᩚ
what do you think? what's YOUR love language? anyone in particular you share it with? tell me below !!

andddd eris out ᯓᰔ