Istg people treat romance and having a partner way too seriously, like I understand wanting a partner, that's human after all! But damn are some people OBSESSED with the idea, like having a romantic partner isn't the only thing that exists in life!! 
Especially but not exclusively straight cis man, they treat like having a gf is literally the only thing you can do in life, get a job? Useless, study? Who cares, hobby? What is a hoh bee? It reaches to a point that everything they do is about getting a partner, reaching to the extremes like.. INCEL? Literally the funniest thing ever cuz tf u mean Involuntary Celibate? Looksmaxxing? I'm sorry that's just shed twt for men. RED PILL? Yall be treating woman like they're human-like humanoids. No wonder y'all don't get laid!
And even people who can get laid, this part I just wanna emphasize that if your relationship fits what I'm gonna say I'm not judging! I just find it weird personally
I CAN'T COMPREHEND HOW ONE CAN DATE SOMEONE THEY BARELY KNOW!! Like you barely know that person, barely know their interests, opinions, lifestyle etc and you're already dating them?? Literally what's going on? I assume it's pure lust cuz I don't see a reason why you would just jump to conclusion that far! Because in the end It feels you have a shallow relationship, a shallow relationship being those that there's only romance and love and oo omg lemme kiss you mua mua 
but yall don't talk about ANYTHING ELSE and just go your separate ways to talk to your friend right after the whole happy couple thing, I personally don't understand why date someone you can't be friends with! 
I guess it's because I've never dated before but damn I find romantic relationships so weird! I can't be alone in this right??? Anyways but if I dated someone i'd def be pizza cuz pizza is bae! 
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Mite
I agree with you on everything. Romance culture is DEAD, look at all those dating shows and whatever, theres so many braindead terms, partners just get more and more objectified into their only purpose being good for having a relationship, its soooo horrid. You donr even KNOW these people you call your partners
Also, I fear that the incel term "Polyester Relationship" just applies to all of these new relstionships. They only date for what seems like lust, as you said, I feel like id want my partner to be my friend too??? Evsrything is so shallow. Friends to partners is way better than the other way around imo. Also edgar mentioned
Pigstrong
I agree to some extent. some people read too much cheesy YA.
but also keep in mind that traditionally it was important in practical terms to be married. people still hold onto those values.
either way it is childish to make an infatuation the defining trait of your person.
Yeahh the marriage part is relevant too!
But I also feel like that's the reason why there's so many divorces, people often marry another just because they feel they HAVE TO instead because they want to, especially religious marriage, for example there's a lot of christians who marry in like months of knowing eachother simply because they want to yk
and in the end they genuinely don't care about eachother, even worse when they have kids, because very often they cling to the relationship for the sake of the child, even tho they may HATE eachother! It's pretty sad but I guess that's just culture, we we're teached young that being married is like the "Final Goal" of life.
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Xx_SORROWOPRINCESS_xX
My ex used to always act like this dude when we first became friends we talked alot but when we got together he would always just talk about romance and nothing else he would even get mad at me that i wasnt able to go out or didnt have time keep in mind i told him multiple times i didnt really felt comfortable anymore around him and it was always so awkward because he always used to follow me around even when i was walking home after months when we broke up he was saying shit like "oh you dont touch grass you hate me!" DUDE I WAS LITERALLY DEPRESSED BECAUSE SM1 PASSED AWAY WHY SHOULD I CARE NOW ABOUT YOU?? he even knew this btw but yet he always said i dont love him and guess what after we broke up he came back 2 times to ask if i wanna be his gf again and i rejected him the whole time i just personally think relationships arent my thing he also calls me parasocial for liking a character very much which doesnt bother me at all considering he told me before we broke up that he already got rejected in the past 10 times which he desserves he always whines about everything and yes sadly i have to see him in school everyday
Omg so sorry you had to go through thiss
But that's what I mean tho! When your relationship isn't build in something solid it feels like it can colapse way too easily! Love isn't about just the romance it's about comprehension, understanding and trust!
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dr0wn0_t
idefk... What are you supposed to do AFTER you're dating someone who you barely know? just non-stop maintenance of something that's bound to crash and burn. After you "pull" them than what... Always just "what's the point".