why do we feel the need to f3tishize alt people..

guys idk, I feel like this needs to be talked about more, like this has happened to me so many times, it doesn't feel like, out of the ordinary if that makes sense?

like it happens so much I don't even realize its cuz I'm alt until I think about it fr. its kinda sad cuz wtf bro. All the styles and ubrellas I fall under, all the vastly different outfits I wear, it doesn't matter, I'm still alt, and weirdos see that?? idk how to explain honestly.

especially with goth girls, I've seen so many baby bats be scared of dressing up partially because they get harassed and f3tishized. And like considering I've been in the goth scene for around 5 years, its so saddd

Im not saying it doesn't happen to "normies" but it happens to the majority of alt folks more yk? I'm not the best at explaining today lmaoo.

y'all know what I mean