🩷💜🖤 I've been struggling with this for awhile, I just want to stop running into/interacting with people that aren't putting as much energy into me as I put into them...it's exhausting me so much 😭
I just stop talking to them and if they contact me I'm very blunt. "What? You need another 'favor'?" or "what? Because you think I'll do it for free?"
Maybe MySpace was all the friends we made along the way.
don't have them
sekai de ichiban ohimesama🔪Aida_Wandering_Online🩷💜🖤 wrote:
🩷💜🖤 I've been struggling with this for awhile, I just want to stop running into/interacting with people that aren't putting as much energy into me as I put into them...it's exhausting me so much 😭
i mean sorry but like. just don't interact with them or put energy into them if you feel like they aren't. who cares, clearly not them
sekai de ichiban ohimesama
My solution is to match the energy, like playing tug of war to the point they fall out or you get the opportunity to drop them
cut them off, either gradually or right away. they aren't entitled to an explanation.
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“@Owen_4521 awww thank you! & dw, I've been online but not too much as I was last month, so I completely get it 🩷💜🖤 I hope things get better for ...”
@🔪Aida_Wandering_Online🩷💜🖤 hell yeah glad you had fun! And again sorry for the late reply. I've been busy with shit😅 and thanks I try to be!
"𝐈'𝐝 𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐛𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐈 𝐚𝐦, 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐝 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐈 𝐚𝐦 𝐧𝐨𝐭" - Kurt Cobain
I just disappear from their life. They won't even notice that I'm gone
I agree with everyone else, just move on and live your own life. It isn't worth trying to force things if the friendship isn't reciprocated. There'a a good possibility you'll just get taken advantage of.
"The future is not determined by a throw of the dice, it is determined by the conscious decisions of you and me."
i'm eating the bucket.
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“My best bet is that it's safer to just slowly lose contact with them while looking for new friends. If they can't put enough effort into a friendship then th...”
@Owen_4521 big on you gotta find yourself. owens 100% right.
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I would give them back the things they did to me until they hated me, that way they would leave on their own.
How to deal with fake friends? You don't lol
Usually you will only learn who your REAL friends are when times get tough.
That being said, just because someone isn't putting in as much energy as you into the relationship, doesn't mean that they aren't a real friend.
Sometimes life is just too stressful and demanding for them and they don't have the time to reply. It happens a lot in a person's life once they hit adulthood and especially once they take having a family/caring for them seriously especially on top of working.
honestly, you don't. you have to just keep your friend circles small, realize your worth, and up and move and find people who actually enjoy your presence. I've def been there, so i can understand the attachment you feel towards them. however, the longer you stay, the worst they begin to treat you
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