What do y’all think about people who choose to be celibate for the rest of their lives?
I’ve been alone my whole life and plan to forever but have people pressuring me to be with someone for their own sake
What are your thoughts?
I have no problem with it, and it's none of my business. Same with ppl wanting to marry, I don't care as it's their choice, not mine.
I really hate how society are so pushy over other's desires!!
"Um, Pin, wrong finger.."
I think it's awesome. more people should do that really
Sorry I know I just made my account but honestly people take the idea of losing your virginity WAY too seriously. Sex is fun, and can feel good and relieve stress, but its not worth pulling your hair out over. They're likely just feeling too much empathy, IE "Wow, I love sex! This person I know and somewhat like hasn't tried it. OH. MY. GOD. They're missing out. I need to convince them it's worth it!" Which totally misses the point that usually if you need to be convinced, it probably really wasn't for you anyways.
Seriously don't let some annoying people get into your head. It's a different thing if you've somewhere inside of you really want to try it but feel unable too (Ie, too shy, physical issues, ect) but if you really have never laid awake at night hoping you could have sex one day because you WANT to, then don't even bother with all the hassle. You can live a perfectly normal, happy, and fulfilling life all on your own with your friends, family, and loved one's and die a happy, satisfied virgin. 🙂
I believe sex is sacred and that myself, shouldn't even be involved with such a process but also with the fact of my potential fears of it and health issues. I just find it crazy that I have no need for it, no need for a relationship and no need for children and yet I am told that I am missing out and or that God will hate me if I don't have a life with children LOL.
But yea, I don't really think about it much other than when someone mentions it, I feel like there is much more to life that I prioritize and care about than having a partner, sex and children :D
I totally agree with you!!
I am. Temporarily. I've been through celibacy forums to see the reasonings, and it was always thoughts I've had. I'm not sure I should attempt relationships for awhile. I probably won't for maybe a couple of years until I settle my life. But I am not asexual.
<yea I find some people just need some space to grow and find themselves or organize their life before they get into relationships which is completely understandable!
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