I swear people don't read profiles. I've had to block 3 people now in the last couple of weeks who have sent me a friend's request and have immediately jumped into my inbox after accepting their request, and I have specifically written right in the very beginning of my profile not to do this without asking permission first in the comments.
If you are a single female, I especially want to know why you are wanting to PM me, otherwise we have absolutely nothing to talk about. It is plainly stated under the warning I have posted in a big block, hard to miss, sign at the very beginning of the profile not to message me if you're single or without asking permission first in the comments. Very bad etiquette on your part especially when it is plainly stated the person is married and has stipulations on being contacted.
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X
None of this makes any sense. Your wife can't trust you? Do you not trust yourself???
Ask for permission before messaging is like the following
[
"Can I ask you a question?"
You just did!
"Okay can I ask another question?"
You just did!
]
The people are contacting you either way and messaging you. 🤪
Hell, i'm messaging you RIGHT NOW! Other people are too.
You also have the option to set your dm's such that friend's can't DM you unless you DM them first.
Every part of this makes no sense.
Your AI profile picture is entirely juxstaposed with your blog here. You don't care what people think about you, but you obviously do.
The ultimate irony is you won't even let people read your profile because it's private.
What do you want? Connection? Or isolation? Why are you here? Just trolling?
The reason for the profile to be private is the fact... 1) I am getting messaged by underage and single women even when the profile was public. 2) When friends requests are accepted they straight ass go to PM's when it clearly states in the profile not to if you are single. 3) I don't need the headache of stupid people who can't fucking read or follow simple directions. 4) I wasn't aware of the setting at the time which are now set to that but still hasn't stopped the dumbasses who become friends straight jumping to PM's and straight off asking personal questions and then are immediately blocked. 5) No, I don't give a shit what people think especially a stupid ass like you that seems like she just wants to be a cunt.
by ♠︎John K Callender♠︎; ; Report
Gray
I feel like as long as websites with profiles have existed there's always been people who don't read for some reason
eternalikon
they don’t. i get the most annoyed when they have a “dni” list and i fit the description… yet they’ve sent the request.
Many of the DNI poster's are virtue signalers and pseudo moral high horsers who want to appear holier than thou for nothing but they don't ACTUALLY care they just want to appear as such. (It's really cringe either way most of the time, and a sign of a very fragile person who can't withstand even the slightest misalignment of opinion or hardship.)
It's akin to what I call the oppression olympics where people wear mental illnesses, trauma, etc. they have; (and some they don't have) as "hypochondrial badges of honor". You can't be mean to me!!!! I'm AUTISTIC!!! I'm GAY!!! You're a homophobe! I'm a MINORITY so you're a racist!!! You can't give me a zero for not doing my homework I have ADHDdddddddddddddd!!!
by X; ; Report
exactly. you've said what i've been thinking. i wonder how they feel when i deny or block them...
i don't care too much about the beliefs or personal lives of others, but i cannot stand the hypocrisy. as far as making assumptions goes, they do it more often than they claim everyone else does. catering to them & their behavior only makes it worse.
i bet they were all once those middle schoolers who'd cry in class or pretend they were gonna faint for attention. far too old for such behavior, but an actor doesn't stop once he gets an audience.
by eternalikon; ; Report
Cysper04
Yikes, I thought that stuff where people would jump into Private Message trying to date someone would only happen to young girls and young adult females.
I didn't knew this also happens to someone like you which surprises me. LOL XD
This hasn't happened to me yet and my Message Inbox is fairly quiet most of the time.
But I hope your problem on this would stop after this.
katieswurld
real