These past few weeks have been so rough for me, I used to wake up early on my days off from work ready to start my day even if I didn't have much to do. Everything was better when I was talking to this one guy but that ended a few weeks ago. Now, I sleep late and I have been having trouble sleeping, I keep thinking of what it could have been with him. I have been feeling so weak lately I feel like I do not have the motivation or energy to do anything and I try to do my best at work but at some point, I get tired and upset if I mess up. This is going to take time for me to heal and recover from this but as of right now I am not sure what to do. I don't have any friends, so I spend my days alone and I've been trying to stay focused on other things so I won't think about this guy. I don't think I have ever been this hurt over someone before.
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Asphodel_Lotus
My heart pangs for you. That is such a terrible feeling especially because you weren't wanting to let go. Going through your emotions and doing what you need to put a smile on your face, is your first priority. Self-care is important right now and take the time and space for it and even though you spend time alone-step outside every few hours and get a big gulp of fresh air and lift your face to the sky and just be! You're doing everything right and though it's painful right now, I believe that you will make it to the other side feeling stronger than ever.
Thank you so much for your kind words! I really needed this today, slowly but surely I will get through this.
by Northstarabby; ; Report
No worries! I was glad to extend some advice. It hit close to him and I tried to relay what I do because it is wicked hard when there's a lot of down time. I'm Victoria BTW
by Asphodel_Lotus; ; Report
Nice to meet you victoria im Abby!
by Northstarabby; ; Report
Faeronix
I know the exact feeling, going through those woes currently. Ladyfriend had to dip on her own issues that sprung up, so that left me kinda sitting, and my friend group basically just is indifferent to my leaving (thats a whole can of worms there.). Just starting to learn to be fine with being on my own, focusing on my own enjoyment and problems. It's very daunting and alienating, but we just gotta get through it. We're all human, we grow and change with each new experience. You got this.
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We can get through this. Time flies and all we can do is focus on ourselves doing what is good for us to heal from a heartbreak. Wishing you well!
by Northstarabby; ; Report
Same to you as well!
by Faeronix; ; Report
Antimatter
same