This isn't a vent this is just me not clearly understanding certain people and why they cant take responsibility for anything (specifically cleaning or chores.)
So all my life I have lived with people who don't really take responsibility for anything or everything and honestly it is very draining of course...but you know what? that's life unfortunately. Although, this isn't about my life nor family or anything but totally unrelated to me in a sense.
I've heard from so many people like friends, ones that live with family or roommates, that they live with that ONE individual who don't do any chores, doesn't clean up after themselves, half ass chores, makes people do it for them or simply disagrees with everything and does not want to take responsibility for anything which I find absolutely insane! Growing up, my mother told me and taught me to have responsibility no matter if I didn't want to do it anyway.
Oh, there's shit on the floor? clean it because there is a large chance that no one is and even if you didn't want to do it but did it anyway, that builds you character, gives you a sense of responsibility and is seen as charity for others and the environment you are around.
Not even that but I hear that so many people who are like this HATE COMMUNICATING, they will complain constantly about the idea that they have to do a chore or take over something that they were asked to do (even small stuff.) As well as not clarifying anything with the person they live with, I simply do not understand people.
Sometimes I wonder how some people will be able to live alone... I don't think they would survive.
Also guys don't be like this person please T0T
Have y'all had the same experiences before?
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Sol
MY EX!!!!! We had been together for four and a half years and ENGAGED when I broke up with him. Partially for this, mostly for a bunch of other horrible, downright jail-able offenses. So I would always do the cleaning, and when I couldn't due to depression, or medication side effects (was on one that made me sleep 20ish hours a day), or just general illness he would berate me for not cleaning. My house has never been cleaner since he moved out. He's currently freeloading off his cousin and probably doing the same thing to her.
My ex roommate was also bad. When her mom came over to visit, she would take responsibility for cleaning that I had done and tell her that I contributed nothing (she ended up dropping out of college with a 0.6 GPA because she couldn't be arsed to do fucking anything and blame others for her problems. there's a lot of lore with her too, less so than my ex, but she was awful in her own special way)
So sorry you went through that!!! that is totally not valid for what both of them did and I completely understand.
I think your ex should have understood what you were going through at the time and perhaps found a way to help even if it was little, like anything matters at this point but the fact that he wasn't sympathetic for what you were experiencing is insane especially with the berating like... sir if you don't like something then do it yourself. ALSO I don't think you mentioned this but I'm gonna assume he never cleaned or barely did with that behavior!!!
But yes your roommate also seems to be an asshole as well T0T omg, sounds so spoiled kill me.....
I'm glad your living in a cleaner place and possibly not around incompetent people!!!
by bunnibun7; ; Report
Ngl, he deserves to be locked under a jail somewhere for all the shit he put me through. He never cleaned, or did anything besides go to work and sleep. I get that he had to work, but come on, you could at least pick up your clothes you left scattered on the living room floor and half empty soda cans!
by Sol; ; Report
yea like, have you ever heard of a laundry basket or hamper???? I think he was taught to be lazy because I know people who work over 12 hours and still clean.....Honestly hope he gets locked up or someone throws cans of tomatoes at him because he deserves it!
by bunnibun7; ; Report