ive been wanting to talk about this for a while, but never really got the courage to. i want to talk about a certain person who goes by Luka (lovely.kitty). when i first joined this app, i wanted to find friends. somewhere along the way, ive met Luka (Alex before). Theyve been my frend for about 2 days, and then announced they have feelings for me. i wasnt really thinking straight then, and said yes. every since then, they have been really weird. they have asked me things like if they can see my arms, my waist, my legs, my body (ifykwim). then it escalated to if i can kiss them, hug them, cuddle. now i know that its a normal thing in real life (in my opinion), but ONLINE it kinda isnt... i have given hints that i do not like when people talk to me that way, but the issue is that i can never say it straight, because i will feel guilty and overthink if ive been too rude, too... i dont know, cold? they acted weird overall- making sounds, meowing, spamming me when im offline,begging me to come back, keeping me up at night, not understanding that my privacy matters. today has been especially weird, sice they know i was born a male (i go as he/she now), they asked "how long is it..???" i was honestly grossed out, i dont think thats a normal thing to ask and didnt really answer...i still wanted to give an answer, becuase i dont wanna seem rude, so i said "uh, avrg". like a moment later they replied saying "mmmm yumyumm", "can i....suck on it". im still grossed out and i have no idea what to do. i didnt want to keep this private, i know something isnt right.guess my parents were right after all ---- "do not talk to strangers online."
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You are not rude for setting boundaries. What this person is saying clearly is going beyond what you are comfortable with. Do you still want to keep a friendship with this person? If so, you have to tell them how you actually feel or they will never stop. If you do not want to keep a friendship with this person, unfortunately, the only way to get them out of your life is to stop talking to them entirely. It would also help to block any alt accounts that try to contact you. You need to put yourself first in this situation. The fact that this person wants you online 24/7 to the point where you aren't sleeping gives me major red flags. I know it can difficult, but I believe in you! The fact that you even posted this in the first place is a good first step! Keep that courage going.
kimchi
also, if you look at my profile, theyre the one who were comentiong on my profile begging me to come bck and calling me "bby". as you may notice, they were banned a lot of times, and made multiple alts..