yapping

i love this new enviornment and space, but i feel like- in a way- some people need to try to be more positive. i am not targeting anyone, but speaking to the community as a group.

there is nothing wrong with venting to the public about issues you need to let out, but you also need to know that some people get extremely weighed down by the venting.

i'm used to being the friend that gets vented to all of the time, and I'm happy that people trust me with their emotions, but I'm human too, and human doesn't mean carrying other people's responsibilities. I feel a padded layer of guilt at my shoulder whenever I say that I generally can't handle being talked to about their troubles because I know it's bad for my health when overloaded too much, and I can end up being rude, sassy, or just straight up horrible with responses when told at the wrong time.

it can be overwhelming seeing issue after issue that someone is struggling with, so, as a little note to the friendrewind community,

I love this place, but sometimes people can't help but get irritated/fed up with constant problems spilling. Just a little awareness, know when to let it all out, because then, we'll be there for you at our fullest. 

anywho, my tummy hurts,

#luffie luffie muffin