Yumeshipping🫩

Okay this is gonna be a rant but why is time shipping a thing?especially with a REAL person,and especially if that person doesn’t consent,some small creators that I’ve seen have said some stuff that is CRAZY,it’s on YouTube stuff and also for me I honestly think shipping yourselves with characters can go either way for me but that also doesn’t totally sit right in my stomach and I’m leaning mostly towards no on characters too,anyways,it’s okay to have a crush,but it gets to a point,what are your opinions on this?