I originally wrote this as a reply to a forum topic but decided it would also do well as a blog entry. so here it is. Elitism & gatekeeping are both good and necessary aspects of ANY music scene.Let me explain. It is a matter of dilution and authenticity. Musical scenes of all stripes, either mainstream or alternative, are built on a collective, cohesive, shared identity. Like it or not, these groups are not open to everyone.The more people join a subculture and attempt to impose their external ... » Continue Reading
so many things i regretlife would be so much better if i can just go back and fix thingsnothing but guiltto eat at me until i'm withered away » Continue Reading
my problem is that ill be fine- and my brain chooses one random dude I DONT EVEN TALK TO and is like "hmmm hes cute" AND ITS SO STUPID BECAUSE NO IVE NEVER TALKED TO HIM EVER (or at least not in a while) my brain does this a lot and i hate it bruh. i want a normal crushing spree not just have a crazy dream with him in it one night and suddenly i like him? like i want a friends to lovers arc but if not thats fine, just not whatever my brain is cooking up. and its worse trying to force yourself o... » Continue Reading
hello everyone ⸜( ´ ꒳ ` )⸝ welcome to my first ever blog post!! i'm so excited to be making this, since i was blogless for a while after spacehey went down in my area :( it sucked not having somewhere to express my thoughts... i couldn't even get a vpn bc my college wifi doesn't allow it. regardless, i'm so thankful to the creators for making friendrewind ⸜(。˃ ᵕ ˂ )⸝♡ anyways, has anyone else come from spacehey? i feel like there's a lot of new users suddenly, n im guessing that's probably why. ... » Continue Reading
haii. this is just me saying how much i miss bf. u don’t have to acknowledge this :)But omg i miss my bf so much. rn im not in my home state because im on vacation but omg he’s like my emotional support :(. he helps me out with my anxiety and knows how to cheer me up. He gives me so many love paragraphs and even wrote a 7 page essay on how much he loves me. I wish i had that amount of words to express my love for him but i go blank everytime and i hate it :(. I love my bf and he knows that, he a... » Continue Reading
Are yall addicted to war movies like me? Idk they are so attracting even tho they gonna make u cry everysingle time (im not romantizing them tho) war is hell » Continue Reading